I woke up early this morning with a doubtful heart, if I were to pursue my application as a worker in one of our church’s ministry. I was not that determine to join the project because of my schedule, but still I just let my self to go with the flow with an unknown force. I took a bath, prepare myself and went to the church. With an application letter on my hand, I uttered a prayer to God that He may guide me for this challenge. As I gave my application to the project director, I told her about my other activities during weekends. We did an arrangement to my schedule and I was accepted in the project immediately.
As part of the ministry activities, every Friday, there is a short meditation and staff meeting. Today the meditation was given by one of our church pastor, entitled “Cultivating Healthy Relationship”.
Here is the outline of the three key points on how to cultivate a healthy relationship:
1. Cultivating a healthy relationship takes honesty.
“An honest answer is like a kiss on a lips” – Proverbs 24:26
2. Cultivating a healthy relationship takes humility.
“Young man, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the crowd but gives grace to the humble.” – 1 Peter 5:5
• Pride build walls, but humility builds bridges.
How to achieve humility?
Admitting our own weaknesses.
Being patient with others weaknesses.
Be open to correction.
Appreciate Others.
3. Cultivating a healthy relationship takes courtesy.
“A perverse man stirs up dissension, a gossip separates close friends. – Proverbs 16:28
“Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10
Being part of a certain group, in our family, or in a company where we work, at school, honesty, humility and courtesy is very important, for us to be fruitful in everything we do.
Thank you for reading and God bless you!